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May 26, 2008

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I hope some of your parent readers read this. I mostly spend a lot on health care for myself. My kids, thankfully, don't need much.

You are not completely free to choose your physician
I basically do, meaning even if they are not in my insurance network, then I pay out of pocket. Sometimes we get some reimbursement, sometimes not.

I read the blog of someone in Britain who has to wait and wait and wait for basic psychotherapy. Like you, I am leery about government-based health care.

I wonder, though, how parents who are overloaded with expenses will react to being told nothing is free.

I'll keep reading.

Leora, thanks so much for coming back and commenting.

I appreciate your sensitivity of parents to whom the costs just add stress for parenting a child with a diagnosis. I did give a rant today, and hope to post on other topics for the next near future and let insurance rest - except for responding to more comments here. And, sorry, one more point related to my emphasis on this issue, I don't want parents duped into more of the same in healthcare insurance.

You make an excellent point about choosing a physician. Everyone can choose their own physician if they are willing to pay the MD out-of-pocket, just like the plumber or the car mechanic (services that have not been overtaken by the concept of insurance). I cannot tell you how many times a parent has told me their child cannot have a wheelchair or braces, therapy or a drug because insurance would not pay.

It's a brainwash that we cannot buy our own medical care. It's not easy and it is expensive, but start at the place of "it can be done".

I came across your blog from the Olive Lead Ministries and I want you to know that I love all the information you share! I am going to put your link on my blog for my preemie mom blog friends. Stop by and see my precious miracle!

Thanks so much for your comment, Shannon, and for sharing my blog with others. I truly hope the information and opinions provided will benefit as many parents as possible. Barbara

Hello Dr Boucher!
I'm sorry to have to use your blog to make contact - I couldnt find your email on your site. A fellow Mother of a little girl with Jacobsens Syndrome is in hospital at the moment and has lots of questions I can't answer - some of them relating to 'Medicaid' (forgive me if I sound ignorant - we have different names here in France). I would like to give her your email so that she can contact you for some advice about who she should turn to - she feels very lost and feels like the doctors don't want to answer her questions. I don't have any advice to give her when it comes to health care in the USA, but I know that you are a good person and a brilliant Dr with, no doubt, some precious advice she could do with right now, articularly when it comes to health care. My email is *****. Thank you Dr Boucher.
Alison

Alison and I will be working on helping this mother by email today. If anyone from the area around Kansas City or St. Louis areas can recommend medical services or physicians, please leave a comment. Thanks.

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